What Does a Bully Look Like?

What does a non bad hold off like? Pretty ugly when they blindside you, yelling unfounded accusations inwards your face. Really? Why does a 50-ish human being detect it necessary to scream at a women sitting inwards her army camp chair visiting alongside a friend.

It happened to me terminal black piece waiting for the band to start at an outdoor costless concert. My married adult man was at the restroom at the fourth dimension of the instigating incident. When Bob returned, he was puzzled to detect our friend contention alongside the non bad (never struggle alongside a bully—they don't heed as well as argue is non a trait they embrace).

What is it that makes grown people plough on anger similar that? This guy was p^@*&%. He defendant me of moving his army camp chair from the spot where he placed it ninety minutes earlier. Really? First of all I did non affect his chair (if it real was his chair). Second, why would he bill me out of manus similar that? Third, why wouldn't he merely selection upwardly his chair as well as deed it dorsum to where his grouping of friends were as well as non brand a scene?

Instead he chose to non bad me. Scream correct inwards my face. It caught me quite yesteryear surprise. His friends were clearly uncomfortable alongside the situation, withal none of them encouraged their friend to calm downwards as well as allow it go.

I chose to unopen upwardly my army camp chair as well as leave. My eventide was ruined yesteryear a narcissistic, belligerent individual who had a warped persuasion of the universe—the globe revolved approximately him. He knows it all.

Here's a newsflash—he wore a t-shirt bearing the squad mascot of the local high school. Want to bet his kids are bullies themselves?

I'm sure a few of you lot convey experienced a similar episode. It sure wasn't my first. We experienced an onslaught yesteryear a stranger ane eventide driving domicile from a formal number alongside friends many years ago. Catch upwardly alongside me some fourth dimension as well as I'll say you lot that tragic story.

Watch out for the blindside bullying yesteryear family. They are damaging beyond imagination.

All inwards all the best affair to exercise is ignore the bully. Don't engage. Bob asked the bully, "Why would you lot holler at my wife?" The non bad replied, "She moved my chair," sitting inwards a chair 25 feet from the precious chair he insisted was his. Ya see? No reasoning.

"You should process people alongside to a greater extent than respect," I said to the non bad before he left the scene. I'm sure he didn't remove heed that.

So when the children's author inwards me pens a mass for impressionable kids most bullies, you lot tin sack believe there's a fleck of non-fiction inwards the story. Drawing from the realities of a fallen world.

And merely similar inwards my mass Ethan Blecher Braves a Bully, that man/bully needs saving—if nil else sure from himself.


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